My MIL Started Coming to Our House in Latex Gloves, Saying She Was Disgusted to Touch Anything – The Truth Was Much Worse
When my MIL began wearing latex gloves when she was there, saying she was “disgusted to touch anything,” it was like being slapped across the face. Her judgement drove me over the edge, even though I was balancing fatigue and newborn twins. However, one day a torn glove exposed a startling secret she had been keeping.
I was too tired to give it much thought when Marilyn, my meticulous MIL, started wearing latex gloves while she was here.
I couldn’t recall the last time I’d slept for more than two hours at a time, and the twins, Emma and Lily, were two weeks old.
In between naps and taking care of the twins, I had initially been able to keep up with the cleaning. With baby powder, formula, and endless loads of laundry that never quite made it from the dryer to our dresser drawers, however, the days now blended together in a haze.
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Marilyn’s home was always spotless, but I had never had such high expectations of myself. Besides, I was now focused on the babies. I thought Marilyn would get that, but apparently I was mistaken.
There was a pattern to all of Marilyn’s visits. Wearing her perfectly fitted latex gloves, she would arrive at precisely ten in the morning to “help me out” before heading straight for the kitchen.
However, she didn’t appear to be doing much to assist me. She occasionally folded laundry or unpacked the dishwasher, but generally she just moved items around the house.
I eventually lost my patience!
“It isn’t.” Danny stood to face his mother. “Who’s Mason?”
She froze, her shoulders tight, and then her perfect posture crumbled.
“Mason… was someone I met a few months ago,” she began. Her voice was small, nothing like the confident tone that had delivered so many critiques of my housekeeping.
“He’s… younger than me,” she continued. “I know it’s crazy, but he was so charming. So sweet. He told me everything I wanted to hear. He told me I was gorgeous, that I was exceptional. I hadn’t felt that way in a long time, Danny.”
Tears began streaming down Marilyn’s cheeks, ruining her mascara. “After your father passed, I was so lonely, and Mason… he seemed to understand.”
“You’re telling me you… you’re dating this Mason guy?” Danny’s voice cracked.
Marilyn shook her head. “No! We were dating, but… I thought he cared about me, Danny. He convinced me to get this tattoo, told me it would prove how much I loved him, but…” Marilyn’s voice broke.
“What happened?” I asked softly. “You can tell us, Marilyn.”
“We all make mistakes,” I said softly. “But we can’t let them define us.”
Marilyn turned to me, her carefully constructed facade completely shattered. “I’ve been so rough on you. I didn’t want to face my mess, so I focused on yours. I’m sorry.” Her voice caught. “You’re doing a fantastic job, and the twins are gorgeous. I have been awful, have I not?
Tears welled in my eyes as I nodded. “Let’s move forward. Together.”
Almost simultaneously, both twins began to fuss. Unthinking, Marilyn grabbed Emma and ripped off the last of her glove.
Her hands were flawlessly manicured, with the small heart tattoo revealing its own story of human frailty. For the first time since the twins were born, I felt like we could be a true family.
Later that night, after Marilyn had gone home and the twins were asleep, Danny discovered me in the nursery.
“You know,” he continued gently, “I think this is the first time I’ve seen Mom cry since Dad died.”
I leaned against him, watching our daughters sleep. “Sometimes we need to fall apart before we can come back together stronger.”
Something changed between us when he kissed the top of my head; maybe it was a new understanding, or simply the realisation that connection is far more significant than perfection.
I grinned when I discovered Marilyn’s abandoned latex gloves in our trash the following morning. It turns out that certain messes are worthwhile.